Thursday, December 2, 2010

Get outta here with these ignorant questions!

So I'm a girl who LOVES girls!!!   Let's just put that out there!  I hate when people ask me the dumbest questions about my sexuality.  Stop asking me when did I become gay? Or say shyt like you are too pretty to be gay!  How stupid do you sound?  First off I did not just wake up one morning like oh yea I think I want to be gay today!  NO!!!  I was always this way.....I realized it when i was 14 and from then on it has been a journey of discovering who I am for myself.  And what is this you are too pretty to be gay shyt?  What the fuck does gay look like?  I guess it's some flaming hot male with a boa or a butch ass female with a buzz cut riding a damn motorcycle........gay doesn't have a face.....you probably sit next to gay people everyday and don't even know it.  And why are people so concerned with attacking someone's sexuality like I'm disgusting for being in love with a female, but you are a heterosexual whore, selling your pussy on the street for $25 a pop, still being considered a saint.  Get the fuck outta here!!!  and why is it that I have to be looked at like a fucking science project with this 20 questions game everytime someone finds out that I am a lesbian? 

First off how about you mind your fucking business and let me live my life.  Don't judge what i do without assessing the whole picture..and honestly even then it's none of your fucking business but since you are so damn nosey here goes a small expalnation....I have been in plenty hetero relationships and it just was not for me.  I have never been so degraded and treated so badly as I have by men.  Men treat you like objects and honestly it's been my experience that black men especially are so busy treating black women like "a piece" versus trying to establish a functional healthy relationship.  Lazy men are looking for women to be a servant and  I am not interested in that.  I have 2 degrees and my own shyt.  I want to be in a relationship with someone who is comparable not someone who is a lazy disgrace with a cute face and low grade sex......there is more to life than that.  women in general treat me better and I have had much healthier relationships with them plus the sex is beyond on point **SNAPS**

but like I said don't ask me stupid shyt!